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RAHMAN's Rhythm for week of August 29, 2007

Loving a woman

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I was asked sometime ago to write a personal ode to a woman that I love. I stumbled for a moment because my purpose here is to uplift and enlighten. Then I thought what better way to do those things than to let a woman know that she is loved. So…

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First and foremost, make the statement seriously and with purpose...I love you.

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Second, the phrase itself is merely words, show her in your actions. Holding hands, reminding her that she is beautiful, stand up for her when need be, pay a bill, be a husband/boyfriend, be her friend.

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Third, be supportive. Sometimes a woman just needs to be heard. As men, we want to just fix a problem, that is our nature. Sometimes, just let her “air” her thoughts. Make a point to try to mentally stimulate her, make her want to love you back. A woman wants and needs physical love and intimacy as much as any man. Create the love and that will never be an issue.

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2007-08-29 11:17:38 GMT
Comments (8 total)
Author:Anonymous
I completely agree with your outlook on love. Not many men can express love or even know love for that matter, and I guess that's why I'm still single. I pray adventually that I find the kind of love you speak of, but I guess only God knows when that will happen. However, I encourage you to, at whatever time possible, to convey your thoughts to other men especially our young men because sadly enough many don't know how to love. I honestly feel it's because they have never been loved, and many don't love themselves, and we all know that you can not love others until you know how to love self.
--Big Girl 00
2007-08-29 13:46:59 GMT
Author:Anonymous
To Love me is to know my inside not my outside. To Love me is to appreciate what I have to offer you from my heart unconditionally. To Love me is accept my good behavior, my bad behavior, my wacky behavior plain and simple Just take me AS I AM....
--MsLadyMm
2007-08-29 14:39:45 GMT
Author:Anonymous
Most men don't realize that it's the little things that will show a woman his love for her(holding hands, taking walks, sending flowers,the phone call just to see how her day is going) not all of the expensive materialistic things. Sometimes it could be just spending time with her. Some men are so afraid to show their love because to them it is a weakness and it makes them vulnerable, yet they expect the woman to show their love for them. They need to know that it gets a little old when a woman feels that the love she is giving is not being reciprocated. She will eventually get tired of it and move on. So "fellows" if you have a good woman show her that you love her before you realize that you "should've" shown her.
--Crissy
2007-08-29 14:51:27 GMT
Author:Anonymous
Roc, you are a much deeper brother than you allowed yourself to show in this written expression about loving a woman. You know about the passion, compassion, laughter, touch, etc. in loving a woman. What about having a conversation with your woman without saying a word, just simply looking in her eyes? What about the simple words when she's pulling a way and you say softly "hey, where are you going?", as you pull her back. You could have written so much more. Just look into your own soul as you're writing and see how much more comes out.
2007-08-29 15:22:16 GMT
Author:Anonymous
Roc, you are a much deeper brother than you allowed yourself to show in this written expression about loving a woman. You know about the passion, compassion, laughter, touch, etc. in loving a woman. What about having a conversation with your woman without saying a word, just simply looking in her eyes? What about the simple words when she's pulling a way and you say softly "hey, where are you going?", as you pull her back. You could have written so much more. Just look into your own soul as you're writing and see how much more comes out.
2007-08-29 15:22:41 GMT
Author:Anonymous
Befor you can love a woman, you must frist have been love.Because love is not a feeling,it is a choice, an action, a way of behaving, a commitment, Love is sacrificing for other. we must learn to love.
2007-09-01 17:34:39 GMT
Author:Anonymous
My brother this thing we call love is so deep I don't believe the meaning will ever truely be obtained. What is Love? The real meaning is not in webster's. I will say this the feeling of being in accord, mentally, spiriually, and emotionally, with another human being is very powerful my opinion is make sure you choose very wisely before surrending to this thing called love.
2007-09-05 23:10:03 GMT
Author:Anonymous
I truely agree with one of the comments that youu could have elaborate more on loving a woman.
--without love
2007-09-06 12:23:39 GMT
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