Social Dynamic of the EX
Relationships in themselves are never easy and take work. We come together for mutual attraction and comfort regardless of what that means to individuals. Couples deal with the ups and downs of daily life and try to make the best of it. However, have you ever noticed that if a relationship is not built on a firm foundation from the start, a child or children will definitely destroy it. Wither it is the responsibility of it all or the added pressures of life being elevated to the next level. Hence, The Ex Factor.
Now, be you man or woman, in today’s reality, you must now on some level deal with the possible bitterness and/or lack of support of an ignorant ex boy/girlfriend or husband/wife. When children are involved, it is “helpful” to try and be as mature and intelligent as possible. Children should not be used as pawns in an ongoing chest game to get even for some past disappointments. Civility, although understandably hard at times, should be practiced. If and when individuals move on with their lives, the circumstance should be easier, especially if the best interest of the children is paramount.
In a perfect world, Parents who are now Ex. should strive to be “Parents”. Working toward giving the child the best life possible. The limited interact should be about making sure that their failure as a couple does not become that as parents and caregivers. The social dynamic of the EX in regard to the ended relationship is to be a well rounded parent.
Relationships end sometimes but not the mental, physical, emotional, and financial need of an offspring who is innocent and is more than just a bi-product of a failed union.
As people, we must get back into the mentality of loving each other, even if the midst of failure, breakups and disappointments. Our children will never know or experience love first hand if they do not see it.
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Learn to Learn, Learn to Live, Learn to Love, Learn to Respect...RAHMAN S.
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